Taylor Swift: Participated, a mummy that follows and is convicted of the mummy? You really didn’t listen Gabi Heinspiev

R.Aylor Swift outside the market. She is involved in marrying the American Football Association player Travis Kiel in what will be the first appropriate royal wedding ceremony for the United States, and yes, of course, I know that you are very high so that you do not care about any of this, but what is striking is the number of people who seem convinced that this is the end of any kind of interesting life for her. As if the woman does not have a drama, or an edge, and there are no stories that they tell, and let us be frank, here – there is no commercial value to talk about as soon as it is no longer sexually available. Fictional stories end when the princess marries the prince: whoever cares, really, what happens to her after that?

Music critics are already discussing whether the marriage will kill her creativity, or whether it will be left for dust by one of the younger competitors who already spend in its wake if she takes time of music to have children who always say they want. The poor Taylor, who was followed by a mummy before being pregnant, like an old friend who prompted her participation in her twenties to tell everyone in the pub after that that this was out of counting. It meant that she was supposed to have children now and lose her professional destruction – directly in the first issue, very wrong in the second – but may have put herself in one way or another in a different category: she is no longer promising young, but in practice overnight. Even today’s program devoted to breakfast at the time of broadcasting to think about the place where Swift will get her materials, as soon as she is married married with no exes toxic to write about – although she was never about disintegration songs, and it was known that women had an interesting internal life even over 35 years.

More stable in the United States The right of Maga is the screaming about what they see Swift’s surrender to the forces of the province, as if St. Cat women are without children (And the arc motive for reproductive rights) has just been sold in exchange for taking pink sharing photos and a soft observation in a small town shocked by her line, “Your English teacher and your gym school marry.”

So when people ask what you should write about now, the clear answer to a person who has achieved billions of pop songs about redefining the limits of women and sabotaging expectations is … all of the above. All slow assumptions about what it means to be a wife and (perhaps, ultimately), the mother, including the amazing old chestnut that women do not correspond to the love of a man. All internal questions and contradictions should be the fact that many of the base of its original fans-which, like it, in the mid-thirties, should be weak to find themselves in making bread-wrestling secretly as well. There is a rich lyrical contact in an incredible way only waiting to be used to be the Millennium Woman and the desire for completely normal things-love, security, family-without feeling as if you were exposed to your independence, lost the profession that you worked hard for it, or shrinking yourself by consciousness to suit pre-mold.

England and Wales reported this week that fertility rates have decreased to its lowest level since the first -time data was recorded in 1938, when Britain was on the eve of the war. In Scotland, they decreased further, to the lowest point seen Since the records began in 1855. The reasons for this modern collapse are complex, ranging from the astronomical cost of childcare and struggle to withstand a family size home to helscape, which dates back to applications, and much more. But the latent place in this mixture is the fact that what is presented does not seem to all this is convincing to many younger women. Tradwifeedom, ancient -style vision of the home of the home presented on Instagram by a group of influencers subject to a button, is a trap that lined up on the title visible from space (and even for those who Do Buy in the reactionary housewife’s imagination, as it is far from everyone with the exception of the small minority of husbands who can bear the costs of living on only one salary). However, the combustion in an attempt to do everything simultaneously, as some of their mothers did, is not more attractive. Meanwhile, some of them are already falling into the younger gap between the solution that they were hoping for – ready for men to share local pregnancy such as equal – and amazing reality often of early motherhood. Now imagine all these conflicting feelings, which were wandering in a few unforgettable involved by the woman who also wrote the soundtrack to your one years.

It is true that from a literary point of view, the transition between the single pursuit and a married woman is a difficult conspiracy point. Helen Fielding, the Bridge Jones facility, does not seem to know what to do with her as soon as you marry her to Mr. Darcy, and he ended up killing him to make Bridgets interesting again. Carrie Pradchu’s book ultimately faced Carrie Bradchu, and solved it at the same extent.

But both Curry and Bridge are fictional characters. Regardless of the sponsorship of her general personality, somewhere in the depths of the Taylor Swift industrial complex is a real person, assuming that she cannot get out of gold from this, she says more about narrow views of what women can be because they are greater than the innovative legend maker indefinitely. In her words, Taylor may not be able to come to the phone now. But I think there will be a new one along any minute.

• Gabi Heinspiev, a guardian writer

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