“Love Is Blind” Season Ninth: Patrick Suzuki and Cassie McCainsth

This article contains spoilers in the first six episodes of the ninth season of “Love Is Blind”.

“Are you trying to separate from me?”

“Love is blind,” and Netflix, dating back, has documented its fair share of embarrassing and strange separations throughout its operation. But those that arrive at the end of the first batch of episodes in the ninth season, which are now flowing, are the most worthy of it, and a realistic reminder of how the fantasy hypothesis is not victory in presenting the facts of acquaintance.

The Colorado season, which was appointed to the viewers to Patrick Suzuki, a project manager who came in the experience open about insecurity in the dating circuit as an American -Asian man. During the phases of the show, in which the participants get to know each other by having “dates” in a room where they are separated by a glowing blue wall, Suzuki made his strongest prayers with two women: Anna Yuan, a hairdresser, Cassy McCainch, a hair and makeup artist.

And as much as the exhibition is about a testing if it could fall into love based on an emotional relationship, curiosity about physical features arises and is often discussed – and in some cases, it becomes a viral moments if you mention to mention that you are mentioned. You are Doplegängr is Meghan Fox. Suzuki expressed Yuan because of their joint experiences as Asian Americans living in Colorado; Likewise, she revealed that she is mostly dated eggs. McCayntuch, Mormon, early, confirmed that dating outside her race was not a problem with her or her family.

In the end, Suzuki suggested to McCayntuch (Yuan chose to leave production early). While their interaction in the disclosure appears to be going well, although it was somewhat embarrassing given the stormy conditions, a few hours later, Suzuki was called by the production to meet McCainchosh. What happened after that is the confusing Mcintosh attempt to disintegrate that was not explicitly mentioned; Instead, I told him that she did not want to go forward in photographing the next stage of the experiment, which was a trip to Paga as a couple. “They are [producers] I told him through his tears asking me if it is about what it looks like, “I am like, no.” “It was one of the unilateral conscious sides that made Suzuki more confused, although heating kisses, and later, leaves goodbye-leaving Suzuki alone,

During a video call, Suzuki discussed his experience in collapse, and how the experience whose history dates back to “love is blind” compares to real life and whether there was a good thing that came from his time in the show.

This conversation was edited for length and clarity.

How would you describe what your “Love Is Blind” experience was like?

This experience was transformative. I didn’t know what I was getting into, exactly, when I got there. I’m just really glad that I did it and glad that things happened the way they did because it made me a lot stronger man, I think, and made me break free from a lot of things that I was dealing with and learn a lot about myself. Overall, 10 out of 10, A-plus experience.

You were very open from the start about your insecurities as an Asian American man on the dating circuit. How did that lead you to apply for “Love is Blind”? How does finding love on the show compare to your experience in real life?

For me, [applying] It was like daring. I was talking to my cousin – my Asian cousin in Colorado also – and we both grew up as Asian children in the classroom, so we have a similar understanding of the place we are in. It was like, “O shouted, I think you will be a good representation of the show.” And I was like, “O shouted, I don’t watch reality TV. I don’t really want to do it.” It is like, “no, no, I think you should try.” It is clear that we were already talking about something Asian masculinity; We are already looking at our dating applications and how we don’t get a lot of traction. This is where it started. We tried, we advanced. I got to the show and then got intolerance, practicing confidence and knowing where it would go.

In real life – in my environment, especially – I don’t think I was going to get any of these dates; We are talking about all these girls, I couldn’t get one date with any of these girls on dating applications or personally. Maybe one or two, who knows. To be able to go to “blind love”, hide everything, be my personality, my personality and my confidence, and seeing relationships grow and get to know – frankly, was magical. It should be there, but it was just a magical moment that exceeds. Day after day, it was like, “curse, this is a beautiful drug.”

I mentioned that you are not a realistic television observer, but I assume that you have some awareness of “blind love.” Did you encourage her before applying or before you go to the centuries?

I saw him. I saw my sister in the first season. I was like, “Well, this is strange.” After a few seasons, you are like, this is a wonderful type, but still is strange. Then it was like, “Dang, they come to Denver. Dang, well, let’s try. Dang, now I am here.” I began to see the beauty behind this and the amount of freedom that they give me to be myself only and allow girls to be themselves and that they are all from Denver, and they absorb that I had to do this in this way because it is like this [global] Stage and platform. I hope I can run this experience locally. But sometimes you should do it.

Obviously, it is difficult to collect the schedule when the experiment is edited, but it seems that you have been revealed race Very early and not exactly by choosing. Have you gone to expect not to be treated at all? And he talked about that moment of hesitation when The topic was raised in the centuries.

The way I was feeling, I would have grabbed it to the end. In my head, I thought it was a game. Initially, you are like, “Well, this is a funny type, a kind of great.” But then it became really dangerous and fast in the middle of the road. I started taking feelings. These girls started taking feelings. You are like, if you can get out of the centuries, and you can make them through all these things, and marry, this will be a strong bond. This may be something you can share forever. At this stage, you are like, I must give them everything and explain to them my background, sweat, and everything, just to be completely weak. I don’t think it was fair to them not to know. How can you say yes to someone when you are about to go to my world? My mother Kemboudi, which is amazing. I love her to death. It’s the best cook ever. But there are a lot of cultural things that you have to do here. There are a lot of cultural fingerprints that are seen when it comes to the roles of female and male sex. I must explain all these things before I ask someone to marry me. This is what I felt about it.

We are talking before the season decreased. Have you had an opportunity to see any of the season so far?

I did not see any of them.

With this in mind, how do you look back on your experience with both Kacie and Anna? Cassi was quick to give her a guarantee that she was aN The couple between races was not a problem. Anna, like you, said that she usually has egg partners.

We really encouraged, me, I, me and Anna. We really were building a connection. I think it is [Kacie] I was honest and honest with everything you told me, I don’t think the experience succeeded in it. It was not misleading. We were cold, we kicked it. You no longer want to do it anymore. This is what it is.

You suggest, accept Cassi. meet. It is affectionate in this meeting. After two hours, you are contacted again to have a conversation with her because she wants to finish her. Tell me what was going on in your mind because all this happened.

My guard went a little when I heard that she wanted to have a conversation because I thought the detection was well. I felt satisfied with that. I think each other told us that we loved each other. I was just going and wanted to hear what she wanted to tell me. I didn’t really know what you’ll tell me.

She tries to be nice and is clearly concerned about optics, but it makes it difficult for you to understand what is really happening. You are thinking that she does not want to make the offer, but she wants to end the relationship. It was an embarrassing and confusing exchange, and this is from the viewer’s perspective. How did you feel you?

A thousand percent, I was confused. [laughs] You are like, with [a] Zahra: Do you love me? Do you love me no? But in excessive speed mode. I didn’t know. I just try to find out what you are trying to tell me all the time. I did not understand what she was trying to tell me. But if we look back, this is like, “Oh, she was just trying to tell me that she no longer wanted to do so anymore.” At the heat of this moment, your emotions work. I still trust her completely.

It was flowing to you at one point. I couldn’t understand what was happening.

I was thinking the same.

You and Anna admit that you were not only nicknamed or mostly eggs before that. What is this experience that illuminates you from any possible internal prejudice, or how it was an educational moment?

It made me traffic through experience really think about it. I was born and brought up in Colorado. she [Anna] He grew up in Colorado. It was not because we have been choosing a Caucasian. That was because this is our environment. You think this through a lot and only interior prejudices … when you think about it, what really matters? What is really important to you? Your values, their character, do they treat you well. This is what I started realizing is more important than anything else. It was a really great experience, freed from all of that.

Anna decided to leave the experiment exactly as it seemed ready to make your decision. I know it is hypothetical at this stage, but do you think you will follow it with Anna’s suggestion?

Oh yes. We were buzzing. We were shooting, but then bounced. It was great. I was definitely suggested to her.

Can you explain to me, then the decision to suggest a Cassi? When the connection is no longer stronger and The option, why is there a motivation to continue instead of bowing?

For me, my insecurity was only assumed. I just felt like, “hey, I want to see if it was attracted to me. I want to see whether this is the real deal.” I will go to this experience because I do not get a lot of dates in real life. Now, I started showing my personality, and I started building feelings with someone, and I want to see whether my curiosity was, mainly, better than me. I wanted to see, I had to see. That was deep, so far. She says it’s about it, I enjoy my time with her. Let’s see if this can actually work. This did not work.

Do you feel that you got the closure you need from how that appeared? Did you get the expression completely about the shape of this experience for you to Cassi?

I think you should know that. But I say that, regardless of any conversation after that, to be able to go to a person – which really made me grow really. This made me really [have a] I think the penetration, and I really understand that it is not really about race. It is really more than confidence. With its departure, I really opened deep wounds for me. So, I appreciate her and strike her participation because I do not think that she will make me who I am today without her, just from an emotional perspective. I didn’t really need to close at some point. You don’t really need it after you collect it together in your mind that it does not want to be there.

Before I let you go, there was a lot of attention, and sometimes criticism, due to the working conditions on “blind love”. How was your experience? Are there any changes you think producers should make on the offer?

I had no bad time. The food was good. They have a special chef or something like that. Ten out of 10, thumb.

Will you do it again?

Oh, no! I am sorry, once enough. I got double sadness. It will be very brutal curse. I am now 32. I have to settle. I must have some children and relax.